There are countless reasons for you to feel like you don't have proper control over things. Our society makes it really difficult to maintain healthy boundaries and stability, and bombs us with a miriad of problems and stressors we can not do anything with. Unfortunately, we cannot change this situation, but we understand your frustration. Your desire to gain stability, security, and affirmation in is understandable. And that is okay. We all live with a lot of unpredictability, which is very difficult to manage.

 

However, there are ways that you can create stability for yourself on your own.